Dealing with an Office Gossip

Can you keep a secret?

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines a gossip as “a person who habitually reveals personal or sensational facts about others”. Gossips often use stories or information about others as a method to gain power in interpersonal circles. They think that if they are always in the “know” then there is a good likelihood that others will seek them out for additional information. Another motive for the gossip is to use the manipulation of information to get situations “stirred up” and enjoy watching the show. This gives the gossip a sense of power and influence that they have not been legitimately been granted. Consider the gossips you know…aren’t they often people without real power in your community or workplace? 

This behaviour can be very destructive, not just to the individual who is the target, but also to the organization or community as a whole. It serves to confuse not clarify; to hurt not help. Because gossip typically involves rumour and inference rather than public fact it is difficult to refute or undo. Try the following:

• The best way to deal with a gossip is by not engaging in the gossip process yourself. You need to stand up to the gossip directly. Let the person know that you are not interested in these kinds of conversations about another person. Stop the chain.

• If the gossip is offering vague inferences or rumours, then insist he or she clarify and provide concrete, specific information that can be confirmed. Typically, this expectation for accountability will make them uncomfortable and they will stop. They will recognize that you rely on shared and relevant facts, not incidental slander.

• If you discover you are the victim of a gossip, it is best deal with them directly. Inform the person what you understand that they have been saying about you. Tell them that any information about you is yours to share and that you find gossiping to be dishonest and disrespectful. Avoid becoming aggressive or defensive, and do not feel obliged to provide any details or clarification about the information being spread.

• Finally, try your best to reinforce the gossip for legitimate actions at work. Pat him or her on the back for work related actions that deserve appropriate recognition, as this will enable the gossip to find value and power in a real sense. Over time they will learn the kind of behaviour and interaction that are accepted by you and others.

It is likely that others feel as you do, but they may be afraid to speak their mind as they think the gossip may turn on them. They need to know that if you are being firm with the gossip that it will give them confidence to do the same.  Your behaviour will enhance your reputation and help set an emotional and ethical climate at work. A plant can only grow in the right conditions – the right soil, the right light. Your actions determine if the gossip “grows” in your workplace. You determine whether the gossip has the right conditions. If you and your co-workers allow the gossip to continue without addressing it, you have contributed to its growth.  (Gilbert Acton Ltd 2006)

Force to Resign or Impeach

The Filipino people are now monitoring the impeachment trial every day. Some people seem to be having fun, learning something, laughing, and being confused. By the way, people from all around the world wrote their comments, like we were watching a boxing match. Occasionally the prosecution and defense teams' punches and counter-punches are deadly, and occasionally they are unfair. Both sides want to knock each other out as soon as possible, even in the first round. Some people think that the fight's referees and judges had already made a bet. So, if the fight goes the distance, the jurors' objectivity will be taken into account.

If you were an objective observer with critical thinking skills, you might be able to come up with your thoughts on how the prosecution made its case and how the defense presented the law. Regrettably, not all our fellow citizens have received the necessary training to think critically and make fair decisions. The way that the idea of "idiotization" of the big media networks affects our daily life. This is shown in how our voters choose the leaders of our country. On that note, how people think about how the electorate chooses our leaders also shows how they feel about challenges facing the country.

The current system produces a perception among the ignorant majority. Idiotized majority in a way, that these people were made to believe that President is popular based on 1000 respondents representing 91 Million Filipinos, that these people were also given false hopes that for them to climb up out of poverty is fall in line in game show that gives thousand and millions of pesos, that people were given the impression that there is no terrorism despite the beheading of nineteen soldiers in Basilan, and the sporadic ambushes and killings of military personnel and some civilian sympathizers by CPP/NPA/NDF and MILF, that people were made to believe that by watching these giant networks, they can forget the predicaments in their daily lives, that these people made to understand that electing the popular rather that the credible would uplift their lives, that people were given false hope that for them to be Millionaire, they need to bet on LOTTO, while some PSCO officials were using the government funds in a questionable manner as investigated by the Senate in their inquiries, and that these people were blinded in the reality of the “matuwid na daan”, despite the numerous unconstitutional decisions and blunders such as the giving of financial aid to the enemies of the state and the recent railroading of the Corona impeachment.

Those are the only few signs that an idiotized majority exists. I am confident that you can identify additional examples beyond the ones I have mentioned. But the last thing I listed, the Corona impeachment, is quite scary.

Some biased and sponsored media are currently spreading the idea that Corona is a hindrance to national development because he is a puppet of the former administration. But will that be enough to kill him? No, the answer is no. That's why the 188 congressmen who signed the impeachment complaint had eight articles of impeachment. They said that the Chief Justice should be removed from office because he doesn't have the moral authority to lead the judiciary.

I was astonished that the prosecution chose to show Article 2 of the Articles of Impeachment instead of Article 1 during the impeachment trial. The defense team objected, but as usual, the Senate didn't want to hear arguments based on law, logic, and common sense. According to Article 1, the ruling is to keep going with the presentation of evidence and witnesses. Upon presenting these witnesses to the court, it became evident that many senator-judges had lost their objectivity. The first witness, who is the Clerk of Court of the Supreme Court, asked the Supreme Court for permission to turn over the Statement of Assets, Liabilities, and Net Worth (SALN) because there is a resolution in the office where she works that says she can't share the SALN without permission. The Senator-Judges had many arguments that were only meant to underscore the point that the witness had to turn over the SALN. One senator says that the Impeachment Court is significantly better than the Supreme Court when it comes to impeachment trials. Many smart people laughed at the comment. The impeachment trial is filled with comedic moments. Senator Joker Arroyo is the only Senator-Judge I know who is a true statesman. He asked for just one day so that the witness might approach the Supreme Court for permission to avoid a battle royale between the two branches of government. He even showed that there is a petition in the Supreme Court to suspend the impeachment trial since there are a lot of legal issues and arguments. But tragically, his biased coworkers didn't pay attention to this evidence. The prosecution then called several witnesses, and the defense team objected, as they normally do, but the judge always overruled them.

Some critical-thinking Filipinos have observed that the prosecution doesn't seem ready with proof for all the impeachment articles. The clearest sign is that they chose to start with Article 2 instead of Article 1. However, when they presented Article 2, their negligence became apparent. The prosecution team says that this is the first time they have seen the Chief Justice's SALN. These 188 Congressmen signed and swore that the Chief Justice was guilty based on Article 2 of the Articles of Impeachment, which says that

The respondent violated the Constitution and betrayed the public's trust by failing to disclose his assets, debts, and net worth as mandated by Section 17, Article XI of the 1987 Constitution.

How could these 188 congressmen have signed and sworn to this claim when one of them said during the trial that it was the first time they had seen the SALN? Signing the impeachment charge is perjury for these congressmen. It is basic sense that they cannot prove that the Chief Justice did not tell the public about his statement of assets, liabilities, and net worth when they have not seen the Chief Justice's SALN.

Based on the premises mentioned above and the way the prosecution acted in court and in the media, it appears that the person who planned this Corona impeachment affair didn't achieve his real goal. Based on my simple view, the actual goal is not to send Corona to court for impeachment. The person behind this plan didn't anticipate the Chief Justice would fight to the end, but they did want him to step down. They believed that Chief Justice Corona was a weak public servant who would be affected by the numerous media attacks that insulted and misrepresented his family. This is the reason the prosecution employs the devious tactic of summoning the Chief Justice's family as witnesses. They hope that it will make the Chief Justice feel worse and make him resign if he sees his family member being insulted by the prosecution during cross-examination. But it didn't happen; the impeachment court turned down the prosecution's request to summon the Corona family members based on legal principles.

People will clearly see that the prosecution is not prepared for the impeachment trial, as evidenced by the current situation. They mistakenly believe that the Chief Justice will resign due to mental stress and the public humiliation of his name in the media and society. Even before the impeachment trial starts, the big news networks have already found the Chief Justice guilty. The prosecution even paid for private lawyers to work for them. The prosecution is making it very apparent that they don't have the legal tools to hold the Chief Justice accountable.

The impeachment trial raises the question of how the prosecution will handle the damage done by wrongly believing the Chief Justice would resign. Can they find more proof to back up all of the claims made in the eight articles of impeachment? Many questions will come up because of this. The 188 congressmen who are part of the prosecution team were mistaken in getting involved in this impeachment process. Clearly, they are exploiting this process to secure re-election or advancement. We truly don't know what will happen next. For example, there are reports of Jose Maria Sison coming back to our country, rumors of a revolutionary government, proof of a slow communist invasion, the Mindanao sub-state, and so on. But there are no winners in this impeachment trial; everyone loses. The question is who lost the most?

The Filipino people are the biggest losers. Every day, the Filipino people struggle to procure food. But tragically, the bulk of people who are dumb are only amenable to the old saying, It's acceptable. The telenovelas produced by the major networks caused the uninformed majority to wait either a week or a day for the next episode. We don't know what this government will do or what the outcome will be in this CORONAVELA. Filipino fans were merely told to wait and see what would happen. ABANGAN ANG SUSUNOD NA KABANATA…

 

Dr. Rodolfo John Ortiz Teope

National President

1st Philippine Pro-Democracy Foundation, Inc.

Good Congressmen to Expose Evil Chief Justice?

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." Edmund Burke

In just a wink of an eye, the quote by Edmund Burke, which I heard in a TV station that happens to own a monopoly of business in our country, ironically enough, was in the same week that a group of congressmen of this nation delivered their statements on TV stating that they already impeached a very corrupt, irresponsible, and unqualified Chief Justice of the Supreme Court, in the person of Renato Corona. The Burke quotation and the statement of these Congressmen did not collide in my mind until I started thinking about a part of the statements—that not only was it the most ridiculous statement a person could ever make but perhaps also one of the most dangerous statements ever spoken.

Democracy aside, there were a couple of things in the congressmen’s statements that have to be noted. On one hand, the Congressmen were welcomed and applauded by the people who really like to kiss their ass for the reason of survival, but still in their statements they terrorized the judicial branch of the government, as well as the dignity of their chamber where they are elected, whereby the magical impeachment case, which I called the CORONA PHENOMENON, was expeditiously signed by 188 Congressmen, in record time, without any due process and deliberation, and the Chief Justice was impeached in the House of Representatives, in the most horrible fashion I have ever witnessed on media. They were insulting, rude, and demeaning to a forum wherein the advocacy itself is focused on the promotion of justice and the triumph of good over evil.

On the other hand, congressmen made a few statements that made me pause and think. The statement manifests that the impeachment process is a healthy practice of democracy for the Filipino people. Nothing new here, we all knew that. And while he was somewhat polite in his approach to the subject, it was not news. Another factor of their statements worth noting is when they stated that they and their country will not wait to be given the tools needed to have an objective and clean justice system. My shocking thoughts: what is their authority and wisdom to come up with such a statement? They believe that it is their right to develop and progress like every other nation in the world. The President for them deserves to appoint a Chief Justice that will truly work for the development of the nation.

Another noteworthy moment was when the leader of the Congressmen discussed the merit and evidence of the impeachment, even if the Senate impeachment court has not yet convened to start hearing the case, as if this Congressman, who according to the Senate President must study law further. Maybe such an early presentation of evidence would change the mindset of the people through the media that the Chief Justice is indeed guilty. The fact that the defense panel is a group of high-caliber lawyers, not to mention the petitions of independent-minded lawyers to stop the impeachment process based on irregularities and technicalities.

But still with the tough task to face, these 188 congressmen stand on their ground that eloquently understands the eight grounds for impeachment, enumerated as follows:

I. Respondent betrayed the public trust through his track record marked by partiality and subservience in cases involving the Arroyo administration from the time of his appointment as Supreme Court justice, which continued to his dubious appointment as a midnight chief justice and up to the present.

II. Respondent committed culpable violation of the Constitution and/or betrayed the public trust when he failed to disclose to the public his statement of assets, liabilities, and net worth as required under Section 17, Article XI of the 1987 Constitution.

III. Respondent committed a culpable violation of the Constitution and betrayed the public trust by failing to meet and observe the stringent standards under Article VIII, Section 7 (3) of the Constitution that provides that “[A] member of the judiciary must be a person of proven competence, integrity, probity, and independence” in allowing the Supreme Court to act on mere letters filed by a counsel , which caused the issuance of flip-flopping decisions in final and executory cases; in creating an excessive entanglement with Mrs. Arroyo through her appointment of his wife to office; and in discussing with litigants regarding cases pending before the Supreme Court.

IV. Respondent betrayed the public trust and/or committed a culpable violation of the Constitution when it blatantly disregarded the principle of separation of powers by issuing a “status quo ante” order against the House of Representatives in the case concerning the impeachment of then Ombudsman Merceditas Gutierrez.

V. Respondent committed culpable violation of the Constitution through wanton arbitrariness and partiality in consistently disregarding the principle of res judicata and in deciding in favor of gerrymandering in the cases involving the 16 newly created cities and the promotion of Dinagat Island into a province.

VI. Respondent betrayed the public trust by arrogating unto himself and to a committee he created the authority and jurisdiction to improperly investigate an alleged erring member of the Supreme Court for the purpose of exculpating him. Such authority and jurisdiction is properly reposed by the Constitution in the House of Representatives via impeachment.

VII. Respondent betrayed the public trust through his partiality in granting a temporary restraining order (TRO) in favor of former President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo and her husband, Jose Miguel Arroyo, to give them an opportunity to escape prosecution and to frustrate the ends of justice, and in distorting the Supreme Court decision on the effectivity of the TRO in view of a clear failure to comply with the conditions of the Supreme Court’s own TRO.

VIII. Respondent betrayed the public trust and/or committed graft and corruption when he failed and refused to account for the judiciary development fund (JDF) and special allowance for the judiciary (SAJ) collections.

Here is where the evil comes in. If they are really good people that do something so that evil will not triumph, I just like to ask back the questions to them about the grounds of betrayal of public trust.

• Who among these 188 so-called good Congressmen did not practice midnight appointments among their preferred people when they were not yet legislators, when they were heads of executive departments, GOCCs, or local government officials?
• Who among these 188 so-called beneficial Congressmen discloses to the public his statement of assets, liabilities, and net worth as required under Section 17, Article XI of the 1987 Constitution?
• Who among these 188 so-called good Congressmen is a person of proven competence, integrity, probity, and independence?
• Who among these 188 so-called good Congressmen is really independent and cannot be influenced by the leadership of the executive department?
• Who among these 188 so-called good Congressmen is not receiving kickbacks and commissions from contractors when they are utilizing their pork barrel?
• Who among these 188 so-called good Congressmen have bought their houses, cars, and condominiums out of their sweat and not through corruption?
• Who among these 188 so-called good Congressmen did not lobby for a TRO in the judicial department in some cases involving their men and close relatives?
• Who among these 188 so-called good Congressmen did not lobby for positions in the executive department to designate their people in vital offices?

If all these 188 so-called good Congressmen would answer NO, then I say, go on with advocacy, clean this nation, and save us from evil men. On the other hand, when these 188 so-called ethical Congressmen signed the impeachment complaint, there was an outburst of laughter from the few principled Filipinos. The educated body of people who read the complaint knew the absurdity of the statement, but the numerous laughter didn’t take into account the ramifications of the whole thought.

Now how does the theater of good men step up and take a stand for the people in our nation who cannot stand up for themselves? The 188 congressmen of this country cannot face their own mirror before filing a complaint. We pray that the citizens of our country can set themselves free of such narrow-minded and uneducated thinking of some of our elected Congressmen. And we must pray that many will not suffer under the regime of self-interest before national interest. Perhaps evil will triumph when good men cannot do anything through no fault of their own but through the fault of those in power who reject reason and wisdom. History has previously shown us examples of demented and closed-minded dictators in leadership positions. But the question is, do we still have good men in government who will take action to prevent evil from triumphing? Face the mirror and ask yourself.